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WRITE 2 THE HEART Stories that are aimed "Write 2 the Heart" October 9, 2003 Cheryl Speir, Editor, moderator@write2theheart.com ----------------------------------------------------------- Welcome to your latest issue of "Write 2 the Heart" You are receiving this newsletter because you requested a subscription or a friend generously forwarded their copy to you. To subscribe send a blank e-mail to subscribe@write2theheart.com. ------------------------------------------------------------ Compassion is a lesson that is sometimes learned in unusual ways. Who would dream that it would come from a pile of weeds? Visit Write 2 the Heart’s web site and read more about Pamela Jenkins. You will find a picture of her and one of her furry friends. Visit: http://www.write2theheart.com/html/writer_profiles.html ------------------------------------------------------------ A Gardener's Lesson By Pamela Jenkins ------------------------------------------------------------
I knelt down in the grass beside my flowerbed. The sun was shining warm on my back and the grass was soft. I started to pull the weeds that seem to grow up overnight among the flowers. If I didn't watch closely, the interlopers would creep in and in no time they would crowd out my begonias and marigolds. Every few days I had to remove the new starts so that my own flowers would stay healthy and strong.
Each weed I pulled was added to a small pile behind me on the lawn. As I crawled along on my hands and knees, I would start a new pile of discards every few feet. Sometimes I would stop to admire the pretty pansies or pick back a spent bloom on a geranium. The butterflies were out in full force as if to say they appreciated all the effort I put into growing flowers just for them.
I was working especially hard that day because my parents were coming for a visit. They had a lovely yard full of flowers, and even a greenhouse to keep their flowers growing through the winter. I knew I couldn't compete with their practiced green thumbs, but I wanted my flowers to look their best for their inspection.
All too soon, my family's car pulled into the driveway. I stood up, brushing the dirt off my hands and glancing back to give my flowerbed a last critical survey. It looked good, I thought to myself.
After a few moments of welcoming my visitors, my mother went into the house to see her grandchildren. My Dad stood outside on the lawn and looked around. Then he saw the little piles of weeds at his feet.
"What's this?" he asked with a raised eyebrow.
"Oh, I was just weeding the beds and hadn't thrown those away yet," I said proudly. I bent over and started to gather up the weeds. I stopped when I saw the look on my Dad's face.
It was one of those looks I dreaded with all my heart. Dad was never a strong disciplinarian in the way that some parents are. He never raised his hand to us when we were growing up. All he had to do was give us that look of disappointment and it was enough to make us want to do whatever it took to make things right again.
Dad studied the wilting weeds on the ground, then looked at me sadly. "They just want to live, too," he said softly.
I couldn't believe what I was hearing. My Dad, the master gardener, feeling sorry for weeds! I followed him up the steps and into the house, where we all sat back and had iced tea and a good visit.
After a little while, my parents became involved with the children And I found a quiet moment. I went back out to the yard and began to gather the discarded weeds. I carried them down to the side of the road near our driveway.
There near the fencerow, I dug in the soft ground, still damp from the recent rains. One by one I held the plants while I smoothed the dirt around their roots. I was giving them a sprinkling of water from a bucket when I noticed that my father had walked up behind me.
He looked over the replanted weeds with a funny expression on his face. I wondered what he was thinking. Then my normally reserved father put his arm around my shoulders and gave me a hug. I saw the brightness in his eyes as he smiled at me.
Nothing more was ever said about preserving the weeds, but that lesson in compassion on a summer day has stayed with me a lifetime. Whether it's the runt of a litter of puppies, a newly hatched chick, or a struggling plant, I have a reason for doing all I can to help it along. Every living thing is a gift from God and is precious. I now see things from a different point of view.
And I still hear my father's words, "They just want to live, too."
Pamela Jenkins bunnies-n-birds @ juno.com You are encouraged to write to the authors to let them know what you think of their story, just remember to remove the space before and after the @ symbol. The space is placed in the address to protect our writers from viruses and email harvesting programs. Have a comment on today's story? Send it to: moderator@write2theheart.com ---------------------------------------------------------------- Pamela Jenkins lives on a farm in Oklahoma with her husband of twenty-three years and their four children. She is the office manager of a veterinary clinic and enjoys writing in her spare time. She is the co-author of several books including Chicken Soup for the Grandparent's Soul and Chocolate for a Woman's Dreams. -------------------------------------------------------------- -------------------------------------------------------------- Letters From Our Readers -------------------------------------------------------------- Ginger sure does lead an eventful life! Wake Up Call would be the story behind her previous story. I am so thankful that God is able to keep our children as He demonstrated with Ginger’s son. But what a terrible time to walk through as a parent. Kim
My heart goes out to Ginger for having to go through her son’s accident. She was able to relay her anxiety, worry, horror and relief. Most of all her thanksgiving at Jason’s life being preserved. Great job. Anne T. --------------------------------------------------------------- Military Prayer Reminder --------------------------------------------------------------- As you read over this list of names, please take that moment to pray for these young people and their families:
Chris Speir Tim Speir Alan Thaddeaus Howard Todd Holland Graham William Julie Sagel Jessie Marshal Thompson Jason Eric Hernandez Kristin Danielson Ken Prieur Ryan
Please continue to pray for our country, our leaders, and our troops at this time.
If you have loved ones in the military, or who are being called to go overseas, send their names (first and last or first only) to be included in our prayer reminder. --------------------------------------------------------------- Cheryl's Corner
Can you believe that Christmas display’s are already in the stores? Three months of Christmas decorations is a little much for me. I put up my tree the first Saturday in December. By the end of the month I am itching to take it down.
I saw a tip on TV yesterday for people to hang their Christmas lights on their house, outdoor shrubs, and trees now. This is to keep people from doing it in the cold. Must be a great idea for many of you. Down here the cords would just be in the way of the lawnmower.
God Bless, Cheryl ----------------------------------------------------------------- ----------------------------------------------------------------- © 2003 Write 2 the Heart Nothing may be reproduced or published without the written permission of the individual author or copyright owner. All rights belong to the authors. --------------------------------------------------------------- To subscribe, send a blank e-mail to: subscribe@write2theheart.com To unsubscribe, send a blank e-mail to: remove@write2theheart.com Visit our web site at: http://www.write2theheart.com
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