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WRITE 2 THE HEART Stories that are aimed "Write 2 the Heart" October 23, 2002 Cheryl Speir, Editor, moderator@write2theheart.com ----------------------------------------------------------- Welcome to your latest issue of "Write 2 the Heart" You are receiving this free newsletter because you requested a subscription or a friend generously forwarded their copy to you. To subscribe send a blank e-mail to subscribe@write2theheart.com. ------------------------------------------------------------ All new subscribers for the month of October will be entered into a drawing for a 2003/2004 pocket calendar. Tell all your friends. The winner will be announced in the November 6 issue.
There will be a new author appreciation gift for November, December, and January. I will be sending a 2003/2004 pocket calendar to the authors who contribute stories for those months. ------------------------------------------------------------- Mary-Ellen sounds like the type of person we would all like for a friend, helpful and dedicated in everything she does. ------------------------------------------------------------- Milly's Will By Mary-Ellen Grisham ------------------------------------------------------------- As I trudged up the drive with my heavy bag of library books, I could see Milly looking around the car port. "Hi, Milly!" I greeted her. "What are you looking for?"
"I can't find Dede--that lummoux!" she huffed.
While the carport had no car, it was loaded with plants, two wood cupboards, a wash tub, and miscellaneous gardening tools. Milly continued to look behind cupboards and out to the field beyond the fence, where contented cows slowly munched grass.
"You go inside and search the back rooms," she ordered, "I'll keep looking out here."
Putting my bag down in the kitchen, I started searching the back bedrooms. As I went back down the hall, I looked into the living room. There sat Dede in his usual place calm as could be with the distant look about his eyes of an oriental sage. Wise, all-knowing Dede-- that wily cat had probably sneaked in the door while Milly was going out. Milly was a bit deaf, and her eyes weren't as good as they used to be.
I went to get Milly, and we settled ourselves comfortably in the overstuffed living room chairs. Slowly Milly perused the large print books, nodding her head and commenting on the authors, her preferences, and her all time favorites. Dede looked benignly on the proceedings, yawned, and shut his eyes, opening them only occasionally to make sure I wasn't up to anything suspicious.
After Milly made her selections, we went to the kitchen where she routinely tried to give me cookies, candy, tea, or other treats. I thanked her profusely but reminded her of my diet, though I did not want to remind her that I had other homebound patrons to visit. Just as I headed to the door, politely exchanging bits of news, Dede came into the kitchen, sidling up to Milly and rubbing her legs with his soft gray fur.
"Look at those white tennis shoes!" Milly exclaimed as I laughed with her at Adidas' white paws. "The lummoux," she'd say affectionately as she stooped to pet the rascally cat. I smiled as I went out the screen door, knowing that while Milly did not always get her complete will with the creature, in the main, the cat respected her wishes.
When I finally got back to the library, I would carefully go through Milly's return books for cards, notes, letters, diary sheets, bookmarks, or other material she might leave in the pockets or pages.
We went through a hectic six months together as Milly and her relatives began to make plans for her to go into a nursing home. She was stalling them at every turn of the way until a bad fall made it necessary for her to go to the clean, comfortable local nursing facility. I thought I had seen the last of Milly, but about three months after the transition, I got a phone call at the library. A familiar sharp, gravelly voice told me, in no uncertain terms, that she wanted books--"just a few," she cautioned.
I was pleased to see that while Milly missed her home and Dede, she was settled into a cheerful room with good care. She and I enjoyed our bi-monthly visits, and she continued to read and exchange ideas. When the nursing home shut down for flu season, we would discontinue until spring. So again, while Milly did not get her complete will in all these matters, she was fairly content and happy in her own indomitable way.
In the weeks when she began to fail, she would mutter to me about leaving her will in one of the library books. I assured her that her lawyer would have a copy of her will and that all would go as planned. She would shake her head no and insist that this was a list of the way she wanted her personal possessions to be distributed among the relatives. She seemed to feel that these were stored at her house until it could be sold.
I looked back through ranges of her favorite books, but I could discover no handwritten will. However, shortly before I attended Milly's funeral, one of my workers brought a thick sheaf of pages to me that had been found in the middle of an old book. I could see with only glance that it was "the will" that Milly had mentioned. There was a personal possession designated for each relative and friend, but I had no way to reach the few of her relatives in the area.
When I went to the visitation at the near-by funeral home, I met only a handful of people. Among these was her son, and I mentioned Milly's handwritten will to him, explaining that she had left it in an old library book. He laughed and assured me that Milly had made her will about the possessions amply clear over the years, and that he had handled them the best way he could. Nodding and smiling, I hugged her few remaining friends and went on my way.
Milly had knitted handmade potholders for me in a variety of shades and had given one to me every so often when I visited. I thought that she had probably done the same with her other friends and her other "treasures." At any rate, I was sure that while Milly may not have had her complete will in the distribution of her beloved possessions, herrelatives had honored her wishes as best they were able. Better still, each of them, as did I, had unforgettable memories of Milly and an ample share of her colorful loving kindness throughout the years.
©2002 Mary-Ellen Grisham meginrose @ empowering.com
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Those parties for Tyler and Mason sounded like fun!
At 71, I see a couple of men, other than my hubby, on a regular basis. My primary physician, and my Opthalmologist. Once in awhile I even see a nice "specialist". Very exciting.
I hope you and David had a wonderful 29th wedding anniversary. We celebrated our 52nd in September. Willie went fishing, and I took a long afternoon nap. Ho hum! It just happened he had promised to take a friend out in his bass boat. We usually go out to dinner to celebrate.
Love, Pat ***** Twenty-ninth wedding anniversary. Congrats are in order!
Fishing and shopping - sounds so romantic! :o) :o) :o)
Wait till you been married for 45 years like Bill & I ....you'll just go together and buyfish sandwiches! :o) Have a good one!
I always enjoy Pamela's stories and Joe is one dog I'd like the privilege of petting!
Betty King ***** Hi Cheryl,
I just wanted to let you know that I received the mouse pad last week and I absolutely love it. It is adorable with all the hearts on it, and my mouse loves it too as it just glides over it so effortlessly. Thank you so much for sending it to me. It made my day and I am always reminded of your wonderful website when I see the logo on it.
Maria ----------------------------------------------------------------
Cheryl's Corner
We had a wonderful time! We hit every flea market we could find, then headed to Dauphin Island to play on the beach. David took a beautiful picture of the sunset, the only flaw was me standing in front of it.
The house we rented was decorated in a Caribbean theme. Funny murals were everywhere. Crossed mannequin legs were hanging on the wall in front of the bathroom. There were just the two of us and the place easily slept twenty. We plan to go again and bring all the sons, daughters and grandsons.
God Bless Cheryl ----------------------------------------------------------------- ----------------------------------------------------------------- © 2002 Write 2 the Heart Nothing may be reproduced or published without the written permission of the individual author or copyright owner. All rights belong to the authors. --------------------------------------------------------------- All subscriptions sent to your e-mail free of charge.
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