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WRITE 2 THE HEART Stories that are aimed "Write 2 the Heart" April 8, 2004 Cheryl Speir, Editor, moderator@write2theheart.com.
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Janet prayed for God to show her if she was making the right choice for her son. God was faithful to send exactly the right teacher for Tim and for Janet also.
Exactly the Right Teacher By Janet Seever Autumn leaves drifted down on a sunny Saturday morning in late October 1985. I stood watching our children through a sliding glass door in the house where we were temporarily staying. Rachel, three, was rolling in the leaves, while Tim, six, was busily making piles with a rake. Noticing me standing there, Tim came over to the door.
"Mom, did you see the big pile of leaves I made?" he asked, a grin spreading across his face.
"Yes, I've been watching you," I said. "You're doing a great job."
I was glad to see the two of them playing and acting like normal children. All the changes they had been through in the past three weeks had taken their toll, making Tim and Rachel confused and fearful.
Three weeks earlier, my critically ill husband, Dennis, our two children and I had boarded a plane in the Philippines where we had been doing mission work. Now we were half a world away in Minnesota. Tim, Rachel, and I had stayed with various family members while my husband was hospitalized for open-heart surgery.
A mechanical heart valve now clicked loudly in Dennis's chest. Diagnosed with congestive heart failure and given just a few weeks to live, he now had a new lease on life.
Throughout the ordeal, we had seen God's provision for us in unexpected ways. This house where we were now staying was one of these provisions. Del and Louise, a couple from our church whom we knew only slightly, had graciously opened their home to us. After ten days with them, we would be moving into a housesitting situation in another suburb.
Del and Louise's house was in a Minneapolis suburb where we knew no one -- a fact which made what happened the next Monday all the more remarkable.
A former teacher, Louise was concerned that Tim was missing school. After three weeks away from school, he was showing little interest in his reading and math workbooks.
"Tim needs structure to his days," Louise told me that Saturday morning. "I know the principal at the elementary school, and I've arranged for Tim to attend there on Monday."
"Do you think that's a good idea for such a short time?" I asked. "After all, he will soon be attending a different school."
Louise assured me that school was the best place for Tim.
Later that afternoon, as I thought over the plan, I wondered how Tim would fit in. Would it be another traumatic experience for him? Would the teacher feel resentful having a student for only a few days?
That evening when I told Tim that he would be going to school on Monday, he was not thrilled by the prospect. "Mommy, I don't want to go school," he pleaded, fear showing in his brown eyes. "I want to stay here with you."
That night I wrestled with the issue. "Lord, show me that I'm doing the right thing in sending Tim to school," I prayed. "He's been through so many changes already."
After breakfast on Monday, Tim, Rachel and I got into the car with Louise, who drove us to the nearby school. She introduced me to the principal and then stood by the office holding Rachel's hand to keep her from following us. The principal, Tim, and I walked down the hall to the first-grade classroom.
"Miss Nibbe is good with children," the principal assured me, tapping lightly at the doorway of the open classroom. "I'm sure she'll make Tim feel right at home. I've already arranged with her for Tim to join her class."
A pleasant woman about my age came to the doorway. After the principal introduced us to her as "Tim and his mother, Mrs. Seever," Miss Nibbe turned to me. "I know you," she said. "You're Jan."
I was stunned. "How did you know?" I gasped.
The principal looked dumbfounded.
"Your husband used to be active in our singles' Bible study group about ten years ago," explained Miss Nibbe. "The group still meets. When a couple of our group members heard that Dennis was critically ill in the Philippines, we all started praying for him. We've been praying for your family since that time."
Then she turned to her class, "I want you to meet Tim, who has been living in a country which is far away. The country is called the Philippines."
"Andy, Joel and Christy," she said to several students near the front of the room, "please show Tim the art project you're working on."
Tim was already happily absorbed in activity by the time I left.
As the principal and I walked down the hallway, he turned to me. "How did she know who you were?" He repeated the question several times, not quite believing what he heard.
After I got back to the house, I found the get well card Dennis had received from the Bible study group. One of the people who had signed that card was indeed Marilyn Nibbe. And yes, Dennis did remember her.
"Thanks, Lord," I later prayed, "for showing me that you were taking care of us all the time. Thanks for providing a teacher who understands Tim's needs perfectly and for the wonderful 'coincidence' of her knowing Dennis. In more ways than one, she is exactly the right teacher."
Janet Seever jseever1 @ shaw.ca
The mother of two adult children, Janet Seever lives in Calgary, Alberta, Canada, with her husband, Dennis. She writes for Word Alive magazine and has had articles published previously on in magazines and on the Web. You can reach her at jseever1@shaw.ca or read more of her writing at www.inscribe.org/janetseever
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Cheryl’s Corner
Youngest son Jeremy walked into the kitchen and told me all of his friends respect me. “Why is that?” I asked, fully expecting some off the wall reason.
“It’s because you cook!”
His friend Seth was walking in behind him and said, “That’s right, you are always cooking something every time I come over.”
“That’s because I’m a stay at home wife who was raised in the south. I believe it is part of my job to make sure a meal is fixed each day.”
Seth told us his mom rarely cooks. Many times he has a bowl of cereal for supper. I know his mom works hard and must be tired when she gets in and told him so. He agreed. As he and Jeremy walked out of the kitchen, they were both saying they wanted to marry someone who stayed at home and cooked. I can’t help but wonder, did I just contribute to making two girls happy? Or miserable.
Cheryl
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