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                         January 22, 2004
         Cheryl Speir, Editor, moderator@write2theheart.com
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We have all been there. You tell your children to have their things
laid out to be ready for church or school, only to find out the next
morning they didn’t. How do you react? Melva decided to use it as
an opportunity to teach a spiritual principle.
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I Am Sorry
By Melva Cooper
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"Behold, to obey is better than sacrifice."
I Samuel 15:22 (KJV)

"Find your black shoes and your pretty purple dress,” I said to my
nine year-old granddaughter, Mary Kathryn. "And go ahead and
lay out your Sunday coat,” I added.

"Oh, I know where everything is,” was Mary Kathryn's reply.

Knowing we had to get up early for Sunday School, I went on to
bed without checking to see if she had done as I told her. It really
didn't enter my mind that her shoes and coat would not be ready
for us to go to church.

The next morning I slept a few minutes longer than I should have.
Granddaddy had left earlier, as usual, to sing in the choir for early
church. Mary Kathryn's sister was sick and I knew her mother was
planning to take her to 'sick call' at the Children's Clinic. That left
Mary Kathryn and me to get ready and get to Sunday School on
time.

Hurrying along Mary Kathryn came in my room with her black
hose and one brown shoe. Not at all what I had asked her to get
ready on Saturday night. Gently, I rebuked her and then went with
her to help find the black Sunday shoes to match the black hose
and purple dress.

There they lay in the floor of her closet. She finished dressing and
put on the shoes. Again I reminded Mary Kathryn to get her coat.
Here she came with her school coat instead of the Sunday one that
I had asked her to have ready for today. I was so disappointed
because we were ready to walk out the door and I had to go back
and help her search for the coat that she needed to wear to church.

This time I was a little sterner with my reprimand; to the point that
she was weeping. "I am so sorry, grandma. I will remember to do
what you say next time," Mary Kathryn promised between tears.
Not wanting to crush her quiet, gentle and normally obedient spirit,
I knew I must apologize and ask her to forgive me for being harsh
with her.

God was gracious and met us both there in the car as we accepted
each other's apology. Mary Kathryn for not obeying. Me, for being
critical. We finished the short trip to Sunday School laughing,
singing and playing our "Thank You, Lord" game we often do on
the way to church.

However, I felt that God was nudging me to use the words and
tears of the morning as a spiritual lesson to us. I reminded Mary
Kathryn that just as I, her grandmother, had wanted obedience
from her that early Sunday morning, God wants our obedience to
Him as well. When He speaks to us through His Word, our spirits,
or godly counsel he delights when we hear and obey Him.

Mary Kathryn and I prayed together we would not disappoint each
other and our Heavenly Father again, and that we would always
remember He has told us in His Holy Word, "to obey is better than
sacrifice."

Melva Cooper
jmelva @ cox-internet.com


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Melva Cooper is a wife, mother, and grandmother from Jonesboro,
Arkansas. She is a contributing writer for “Obadiah Magazine,”
“Christian Motorsports Illustrated” and a Team Writer for “Just-A-
Minute Devotionals.” Melva is also a staff writer for
www.catchfence.com and has been published on several websites
and ezines. One of her "Grandparenting" stories will be in “Living
By Faith” to be published by Obadiah Press later this year.  You
can read more of her stories at www.melvacooper.com
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As you read over this list of names, please take that
moment to pray for these young people and their families:

Chris Speir                   
Tim Speir                     
Alan                              
Thaddeaus
Howard                    
Todd Holland
Graham
William
Julie Sagel
Jessie
Marshal Thompson
Jason
Eric Hernandez
Kristin Danielson
Ken Prieur
Ryan
Jonathan P. Wells


Please continue to pray for our country, our leaders, and our
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                           Cheryl's Corner

My oldest son, Chris, and his family were over the other night.
While they played and watched a movie, I cut off and hemmed   
school pants for grandson Logan. It wasn’t long before the “boys”
found the strips I had cut off. Chris became the little boy he once
was, snipping and creating masks and hats for his sons. He did
things like that all his growing up years. It’s nice to know that he
has never outgrown the simple pleasures. I feel truly blessed to be
able to watch and share these moments once again.

God Bless,
Cheryl
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